Keep this in mind when you are deciding who is and who is not “girlfriend material.” Being “The Nice Guy” is not an effective strategy when trying to woo a woman.
Now, don’t get me wrong, nice guys can often finish first with women (as my friend Kevin Alexander will tell you) but trying to be too nice, or trying to be someone you’re not, never works!
Why marry someone and spend the rest of your life with them without even knowing if you like connecting with them in the most definitive way?
It’s one thing if a woman is obviously trying to have you buy everything or get her things; it’s another thing entirely to offer to get the first round of drinks on a first date.
Guys who read too much pick-up artist stuff tend to believe this fallacy.
Typically I hear things like “Wait 3 dates before getting sexual.” Or sometimes I hear 5 dates, or 1 month, or even a few months, or yes, even marriage!
Now, putting aside any religious rhetoric or ideological beliefs; just taking into account the idea of someone waiting to have sex with someone else until getting married is completely moronic! And it’s one of the worst dating tips for men out there!